Wednesday, November 22, 2006

The differences between non-pregnancy and pregnancy

Although I am 32 already, there are lots of single women around me. They were curious asking me about the feeling of pregnancy. I remembered I replied “I feel that my belly is so heavy” without thinking. Now, I start to think deeply. What are the differences between non-pregnancy and pregnancy?

Non-pregnancy - 1.Women should be strong, not crying in front of people. Otherwise, people would tag you as an emotional woman. 2. I always feel that Taipei is a city without warm and love. People just come and go around the big city. 3. Food is not necessary. That’s nothing if I miss any meal. The worse thing if I ate the bad food is just diarrhea. 4. Life is short. I would like to travel around and to explore my life as possible as I could. 5. Money is the thing that you will spend early or late. It’s not necessary to save or to manage.

Pregnancy -1. I should be very strong, but that would be ok if I cried. People know pregnant woman are sensitive. 2. The city is so warm. There are at least five strangers tell me “be carefully.” Taiwan is really a city full of warm. 3. “Three meals a day” is really important. Every bite I sorrowed is going to become part of baby’s body. 4. Life is extending. The environment is really significant for baby. I should pick a high-quality environment for her. 5. I should start manage my money. My child’s education fee is going to use half of my salary. If I don’t manage it and save some money, how do face some extra expense if it needs.

2 comments:

joanh said...

that is very thoughtful.. i am glad you felt that taipei was very warm when you were pregnant.. i had some good, some bad experiences with strangers in taipei. eileen is lucky to have an introspective mom!

Sunny said...

I do feel lonely in the beginning. Especially when I quarreled with my husband. Taipei seems so big that there is no place I can go and hide myself. Glad to have you ladies. Food, massage, facial, and shopping can always drive my loneliness away.